Filipina women very in personalities, some from a hot flare temper to the docile ones.
Many websites try to stereotype the filipina (or Pinay) as a docile pet that can be bended at will, bought with monetary love, if you go to Philippines with that attitude, I am afraid sir, you will come to rude awakening.
Another fact is that these woman in the site are 10% scammers, 20% Bar Girls, 40% Webcam show host, 10% dead profiles, and 20%of the woman online genuinely looking for love.
That of course leaves us guys at a slim chance, so do not get jealous if your Pinay friend has over 30 guys on Facebook or her profile, chances are you have to compete against these other men.
Some men are adders, men who add and add constantly but cannot keep in track, other males are just friends who actually started talking to them for romance but did not work out between the two, and finally, we come to the males wanting to court. Remember do not get jealous if she is courting with another foreigner, it is not official and the are just trying to get to know each other. One thing is for sure, GET THAT CONSERVATIVE stereotype off the window, because truly, they are not.
Genuine Pinay woman for the most part:
- Want to feel sexy and wear skimply clothes (it is a norm and it is hot as hell in the country)
- Love to laugh and take thousands of photos
- Like long stories and long conversations
- Do not care nor ask about money
- Are not looking for a male 20 years older than her age. (sorry older gentlemen but I will explain this)
- Keep you in their priority in their life, even if you are 20,000 miles away.
- Will pay their share and don't want you to spend money
Basically we have to think about how a woman in your country would feel if you tried to bribe them with gifts? Not good right? Same rules apply here. They want a compatible lover not more than 20 yrs older, stable, and can give them children. (Yes, that is why I don't keep relations because I do hate kids).
The country also has it's bad apples and consequences when dealing with Filipinas:
Bad apples:
- Heavily parties, especially in known tourist spots. (Datinng around local foreigners)
- Tells you one job but seems to earn more than what she really does. (Might be bar girl)
- Is 18-30 and accepts a 60+ year old man. (In it for the money and gifts, chances she is a professional)
- Online but doesn't give you time of day unless there is something monetary
- Refuses to give her personal Facebook (all filipinas have facebook and a cellhphone)
- Knows perfect english and refuses for Skype or Webcam Voice call.(Might be scammer or ladyboy)
- Has an Iphone but she does not work and her parents are regular laborers( does not add up)
Again, these are the few general rules to talking to a woman, in Philippines, and rule Number 1 in a Filipina dating site, DO NOT ACT COCKY! AND DON'T SEND MONEY TO A PERSON YOU NEVER SLEPT WITH! Well have fun folks.
The Veteren Tourist Signing out. (Yes Veteren with E).


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